Before we discuss about making decisions, in my point of view making decisions is about choosing what is right for myself, and i am the one will go through it, having my responsibilities towards my decisions.
But sadly, most people like to ask his/her friend for recommendations, whether its suits us or not, we tend to take that decision just to satisfy and not to break out their friendship.
Its true that asking friends and family is about sharing ideas and opinions not about asking them to decide for me, making decisions comes after that.I could agree with that, but what i can see, it does not seems like that.
Example; shopping, hehehe..!! two girls in the mall, lina and sarah, they went to shioping, lina found a nice dress, that dress has two different color, blue and red, lina like both but more to blue , lina asked sarah for her recommendations, sarah recommended for red saying "red looks nice to you" but lina said "but what do you think about blue, i think blue is nice too, sarah said "nah, trust me, red is much more better", lina "B...B...But blue is good", sarah said "Okey,just tell me you wanted to get blue, if you want to take blue just take it, fine. i wont talk to you", then lina took red just to let her friend happy.
So now, what do you think guys, who took the decision??
"If you still not sure, ask your friend to help you out to find the answer :) "
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